So…I have exactly 175 days until I turn 60. Roughly 6 months. Nothing magical happens at 60, I mean, I already qualify for a senior discount at most places. AARP sends me junk mail weekly. I’ve been reminded already to have yet another colonoscopy, mammogram and bone density test. So…I’m not sure what the big…
Read MoreWho’s Setting the Pace?
I recently went for a walk with a friend. As I near the age of 60, walking has become my effort in delaying the mobility issues with aging. I should say, MY mobility issues with aging. Some people are still running at 60. I wasn’t running when both knees had full padding, so pretty sure…
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Grief and Guilt
As I sit and write today, there is a noticeable absence in our office. Both our dogs made their trip beyond over the past three weeks. The house is quiet and the last of the dog hair has been vacuumed up. And I spent the last week crying. It’s not that we haven’t had to…
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The Best Time of Life
I will be 59-years old this year. Let me restate that…I will be in my last year prior to turning 60 this year. I’m unsure how that happened. It seems like only ten years ago that I was in high school. Somehow in that ten years, I got married, had three kids, got divorced, was…
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Knotts Berry Farm and Lessons from Zane
We went to Disneyland last month. Actually, we went to Disneyland and Knotts Berry Farm on a crazy two-day excursion with six adults, two teenagers, and our two grandchildren, one of which was only two months old. I realize that this could now turn into a running commentary asking “who takes an infant to Disneyland…
Read MoreSometimes the Reviews Don’t Matter
It’s almost Christmas. This year has passed much more quickly than 2020, which seemed to drag along in spite of continual surprises straight from a Zombie Apocolypse movie – (does anyone remember the Murder Hornets?) Being so close to December, we decided to start the festivities early with our Grandson. I actually don’t remember building…
Read MoreThe Pandemic Dress Code
So….I have put on the quarantine fifteen…nineteen…twenty-two. And then I stopped weighing myself. I have backed myself in a clothing corner, unfortunately. I refuse to buy larger clothes and I gave away all of my big-lady clothes in April when the stay-at-home orders prompted a mass cleaning of my house. I was in my Kon-Mari…
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Peace in a Pandemic
2020 has been quite a year. I think one of my favorite memes has been a picture of David Bowie as the Goblin King. The caption read, “At this point, if the Goblin King invited me into the Labyrinth, I’d just go…” I think we all would. So far this year, Australia started burning, the…
Read MoreThe Quarantine 15 and Silencing Bill
I lost forty pounds last year. I needed to, desperately, since managing my weight becomes an all consuming activity as soon as I hit size 14. At size 16, I will have crossed the line to obsessive/compulsive behavior, buying every workout program that promises results and thinking about my weight on a minute-by-minute basis. It’s…
Read MoreSocial Injustice – Just an Opinion
Here we are in the back-half of 2020…and the year continues to bring more unrest. It’s been interesting to watch the varying responses to our current social crisis. Some people think it’s a crisis because the issue of racial inequality has never been dealt with. Some people think it’s a crisis because there is rioting…
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Mothering, Marriage and Menopause 